I don't know if any of you have experienced this, but it's a first for me....
I have this one site that I frequent....I used to LOVE going there and now......well........the politics of it just piss me off to no end!
I don't know what to do, because certain things about this site I LOVE, but other things are really starting to grate on my last nerve.....not sure if I should just let it go or if I am being stupid....I don't want to go into specifics or name this site, I don't want to ruin it for anyone who may still find some pleasure in it......I just had to get it out.....
I find that the cliques are ridiculous....AND I feel that stuff is getting judged unfairly.......I don't like that there are people there who I am SURE are lying......I cannot STAND that...but it seems to happen more and more and no one seems to catch on! I don't know....perhaps I should just stop going there, but it just breaks my heart to do that because of a few when there is nothing wrong with the majority....know what I mean?
Sorry for the ramble peeps, but any advice will be greatly appreciated!
Sunday, June 8, 2008
Letting go.....
Posted by rajah1116 at 6/08/2008 10:00:00 AM
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I know how that goes. I had to stop going to a site because of that. Plus there were alot of bitchy people there too. Sorry you feel this way. Hope it either gets better, or you find another site to play on.
I have no clue what your talking about but I think you had fun at the site we were on all weekend. I havent had any problems there at all. But I do hate that and I have been to sites like that and it sucks!
I think that it just happens. Some people who meet on line end up meeting in real life or connecting in a way that brings them together and it can seem cliquey to some but might just be a group of friends. I know for me, if I'm running out of time to hit a gallery with comments I will seek out my friends stuff first. It's nothing bad towards anyone else. You'll figure out what is right for you to do and if you do what is right for you then all is okay.
I know what you mean. Been there, done that before on some Mom Boards. It gets crazy. The best thing to do is just leave and let it go.
I imagine it is hard and I know what you mean about the cliques on some boards. What it comes down to is that if you're not enjoying it, maybe it really is time to let it go.
I think you have to do what makes you the most comfortable. Good luck Katie!
Katie, I know exactly what you are going thru. I had a board that I posted on regularly for years that I ended up leaving. It made me sad to leave, but I just couldn't take it anymore.
i don't know what you are talking about (I hope!) but I know that online sites are for fun, and if I'm not feeling comfortable at one place then I know I'd be moving on. the place I hang out has had a few bumps in the road, and sometimes people bugged me and I thought it would never get better, but it always has, so I know I have found my home.
One thought would be to "talk" it out with any one person that you are struggling with. I know I have had some misconceptions and when I've talked more with the person I've discovered I misunderstood and I've always come through feeling better about the situation.
If you need to talk to just some random person, drop me a line. I am always dead honest and maybe I can help you see your way clear of the situation!
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